Wednesday, May 8, 2013

A Letter to the Editor (Save the Winchester CDC)


Dear Editor,

My name is Jack Starry and I am the parent of a special needs child. My son has Autism.

Recently, I was shocked to learn that the Virginia Department of Health Child Development Clinic (CDC) located at 10 Baker Street in Winchester, Virginia, will be closed effective July 1, 2013. In addition to conducting full-scale, affordable, and reliable psychological evaluations, the CDC evaluates special needs children, adolescents, and adults for the Intellectually Disabled (ID) Waiver and the Developmentally Disabled (DD) Waiver. These waivers help to provide essential services for these individuals, which may include Behavioral Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Environmental Modifications, and a wide range of other important aids to facilitate improved quality of life for the affected people and their families.
When the Winchester location of the CDC closes, all individuals who are currently eligible for services locally will be redirected to the CDC in Harrisonburg at James Madison University. This is 72.8 miles away from our local CDC. Isn’t it the goal of our community systems of care to serve the children and families in our community locally? Isn’t it the goal of our community to reduce the number of children and adolescents who “slip through the cracks” due to a lack of local service providers? Does our community not understand poverty as it relates to the need for accessible services here?

The individuals benefitting from the services provided by our local CDC have a wide range of disabilities including autism (low to high functioning), as well as other developmental and intellectual disabilities. Travel can be traumatic and difficult for these children. A markedly increased distance of travel is even more stressful and traumatic.

From my personal experience, the Winchester CDC observed, evaluated, and documented my sons evaluation within a period of 3 months from the time of referral. Because of their flexibility and availability to meet our needs as a family, we were able to attend all of his appointments for evaluation and follow-up with minimal loss of time from work. As I am sure you can imagine, families with special needs children are oftentimes stretched to the limit financially, as well as emotionally. The CDC kept the disruption to a minimum. The evaluation isn’t a pleasant experience no matter how you look at it, but it was certainly minimized by the close proximity to home and “normalcy” for our son.

I recently called the Harrisonburg CDC to inquire as to the length of time it would take to have my son re-evaluated. This call has proven to be very telling. In order to complete our evaluation in the Harrisonburg clinic, we were told that we would first need to travel to the CDC location in Harrisonburg to fill out paperwork before the evaluation could be conducted. The wait for this initial appointment, at this time, before even taking on the caseload from the Winchester clinic, is at least 1 month. We were informed that our son should not attend this appointment, meaning he would need to be supervised at home while his mother and I would need to take an entire day off of work and home duties to meet with the staff. Once this initial appointment is complete, a minimum of 3 months on the waiting list will pass before an evaluation can be scheduled (again, this is before the Harrisonburg/JMU Clinic takes on the existing Winchester clients and overflow). Once the evaluation is completed, another 6 weeks minimum will pass before the data will be compiled and prepared to be presented to us. Again, for this final appointment, our son shouldn’t be present, which means a second day requiring us to locate and secure a babysitter who can adequately meet our son’s needs. For those who wonder, it is not an easy task to find a sitter who is capable of managing a child with autism, and, when this individual is located, it is not a cheap endeavor. In summary, from the time of referral to the conclusion of the evaluation (mostly due to the distance of travel), capable supervision for our child is required for 2 days, and my wife and I will be required to take three days off of work in order to make the trip to Harrisonburg. As most families who live paycheck to paycheck will explain, missing this amount of time from work (3 days in 6 months) is frowned upon by most employers, and we cannot afford to lose the employment that is so difficult to obtain in this time. What does this mean for today’s families? If they have to choose between putting a meal on the table, and securing childcare in order to go to an appointment, they will put food on the table. When service providers are local, however, this is a non-issue.

It is pretty significant to talk about that timeframe before I close. From the time of referral until completion of evaluation, it will take the Harrisonburg clinic almost 6 months total - TWICE the amount of time needed for the same evaluation provided locally by the Winchester CDC; aside, the State Health Department has informed me in writing that closing our CDC will benefit families because their contractors will be able to evaluate more patients in a shorter period of time.

I invite you to re-read the above paragraph and show me where the shorter period of time is located. I invite you to re-read this letter and help me understand how my family will benefit from 3 days of lost employment, 3 days of travel that will take us 3 hours round-trip, 2 days of childcare by a specialized provider, and, oh, we’ll either have to eat out or pack a lunch for the meals that we will need while traveling. Yes, I’m aware that, for families who are blessed to have Medicaid insurance, travel can be provided, or mileage can be paid. Again, this is another inconvenience to the families who could receive local care and treatment, and an increased expense to the system which is supposed to be saving money with this decision.

Closing the Winchester CDC is a mistake. It will adversely affect hundreds, if not thousands, of families in the Northern Shenandoah Valley, not to mention the numerous providers who rely on the CDC as a referral source when there is no place else to go for our children. I urge your readers to speak out against this closing, and for this community to stand beside its claim to provide local, mental health treatment and comprehensive evaluations to those of us who require these services.

Sincerely,
Jack Starry

JT’s Dad

Northern Shenandoah Valley Autism Resource/nsvar.org

It's advocacy, not Costco!

Have you ever gone to Costco? Have you ever roamed the aisles and stopped to graze the free sample kiosks? Have you ever gone around the store just to come back to the pizza bites again? Sometimes getting a little snack for free and maybe not buying anything at all?

What would you do if the cafeteria at your child's school stop serving your child food? Would you call the school? Would you do whatever it took to make sure your child wasn't hungry? Would you get involved for the sake of your child and other kids in the same predicament?

Advocacy for your child is important! It helps to ensure that the services they may desperately need stay available. A lot of hard work goes into these services... there are a lot of groups that provide the services for free. But please don't fool yourself, it cost money to run them.

It just hurts to see people lining up for the free stuff, but running for the hills when something is needed from them. Ever since I found out that my child has autism, I have bent over backwards to find every possible service and advantage that I can for him. If that meant giving of my time and my sweat... done. It's not much to ask.

Maybe Costco is a bad example... but you can see the euphoric "free stuff" glazing on their eyes. It's disappointing as well as disturbing.

Trying to stay in the grey areas...

These days it's almost impossible to stay unbiased when it comes to autism activism and advocacy. Autism can be potentially linked to sonograms, vaccinations, pesticides, child abuse of the mother as well as a long list of other things. Nothing has been proven yet, either because of political intervention, corporate lobbying or a complete and total lack of research.

Those of you who know me personally know that I can be a very opinionated person and I have a sarcasm streak a mile wide. Sometimes it is all I can do to leave my personal feelings out of it and stay objective for the sake of the cause. I know that running off at the mouth won't solve anything, but sometimes it sure makes me feel a heck of a lot better!

My point is this... my child has autism now. Of course I hope they find the cause, but I feel that there would be too much political or corporate intervention to ever accomplish anything. I am focusing on my child, his current situation and how I can make his life the best it can be. If I become polarizing on these issues, I may alienate someone who might benefit from NSVAR otherwise. And that's the whole reason I started in the first place... to help everyone affected by autism no matter what the personal opinions are. We are all in this together, and nothing drove that point home more solidly than the Essential Pieces group in Winchester and the deep sense of community shared by the members there. They are my extended family and my motivation.

I just have to straddle that double yellow line and keep it in the middle of the road.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Petition to save the Winchester Child Development Center

Click Here to Sign the Petition

The Winchester Child Development Center is being closed.


We need to save this precious resource for our children! Please sign the petition!

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Fair weather friends.

I was looking at the NSVAR Twitter account (twitter.com/NSVAR) and saw a post that made me think. It basically said that Autism Awareness Month was over, and ASD stories are now relegated to page 5 as opposed to the front page.

That made me think. Where's the awareness now? Where did everybody go?

Look at it this way. For a lot of people, awareness is a bandwagon. Fun to ride while everyone else is. Worthwhile when it's the flavor of the month. And until the next fashionable cause comes along.

It's fashionable if you don't have autism. If you aren't the parent of a child with autism.

It's reality for us. May 1st got here and my child is still autistic. Where are you now?

Here's another way of looking at it... Thanksgiving rolls around and people start to volunteer at the homeless shelter between then and Christmas. Great food, donations of clothes and money. Because it makes them feel good. It absolves them of their guilt. They don't stop to think that there is another 335 days left until the holiday season rolls around again! Don't get me wrong... the awareness/attention is appreciated! But we don't disappear after the 30 days is up.

People sure act like we do, though. It kinda sucks.

My awareness year started January 1st. It will end December 31st. It's starts over again at midnight on New Years Day.

Saturday, May 4, 2013

A couple questions for you...

Ever since your child was diagnosed with autism. Do you...

1) Find the use of the "R" word even more absolutely disgusting? (you know the one)

2) See even more beauty in a child with disabilities than you ever had before?

3) Find yourself holding your tongue in public when you get dirty/disgusted looks when your child is mid-meltdown?

4) Give other parents a sympathetic smile or nod when they are going through the same thing?



Heres my answers, if you are interested:

1) As for me, I never did like the R word much. I like it even less now. I wont use it, and I will give the dirty eyeball to anyone who uses it around me.

2)In Costco today, my wife and I were in line behind a mother and daughter. The little girl had Downs Syndrome. She was an absolutely beautiful little girl with the sweetest smile! I watched her and relished in her innocent joy. Unabashed happiness.

3) 2 things: A) I'm sasquatch sized... most wont give me a dirty look for obvious reasons. B) I wont hold my tongue. I know maybe I should, but no.

4) Always.

Please answer in the comments... I'd love to know!

Friday, May 3, 2013

Tone it down a little, will ya?

While in the process of looking for articles for the NSVAR social network pages, I inevitably find articles by parents and advocates that take an almost combative  stance. I never really can wrap my brain around that.

I completely understand a strong desire to advocate for your child, your family or your friends. I admire that, and I do the same thing. But to go on a full frontal attack is just going to put people in a defensive position. People stop taking you seriously when you start to lose your cool.

When I am advocating for my child and need to make my voice heard, I can guarantee you that I will be the 2000 pound silverback gorilla in the room. I refuse to be ignored. Anyone who knows me will see this soon because I will be advocating to keep the Winchester Child Development Center open.  Do you think the Virginia Department of Health would take me seriously if I were to start screaming like a raving lunatic?

Stand tall, say it loud and say it with conviction. Make sure they hear you. Make sure they know who you are. But say it with intelligence, think before you speak and say it with the composure and compassion of a loving friend or family member dead set on achieving your goal. Make them take you seriously.

And if you feel the need to bring a 2000 pound silverback gorilla with you, just tell me where to show up!