While in the process of looking for articles for the NSVAR social network pages, I inevitably find articles by parents and advocates that take an almost combative stance. I never really can wrap my brain around that.
I completely understand a strong desire to advocate for your child, your family or your friends. I admire that, and I do the same thing. But to go on a full frontal attack is just going to put people in a defensive position. People stop taking you seriously when you start to lose your cool.
When I am advocating for my child and need to make my voice heard, I can guarantee you that I will be the 2000 pound silverback gorilla in the room. I refuse to be ignored. Anyone who knows me will see this soon because I will be advocating to keep the Winchester Child Development Center open. Do you think the Virginia Department of Health would take me seriously if I were to start screaming like a raving lunatic?
Stand tall, say it loud and say it with conviction. Make sure they hear you. Make sure they know who you are. But say it with intelligence, think before you speak and say it with the composure and compassion of a loving friend or family member dead set on achieving your goal. Make them take you seriously.
And if you feel the need to bring a 2000 pound silverback gorilla with you, just tell me where to show up!
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