Monday, April 28, 2014

Autism, and the plague of ignorance

http://youtu.be/ogOoOH-FSKc

Watch that video. Watch it twice. Know that Nathan has every right to take his service dog into that restaurant... He even called ahead to be sure... But was refused. 

Then read the comments. 

Vulgar, insensitive rants spat out by ignorant people wanting only to stir up trouble. Foul mouthed and hurtful. 

On one hand, you want to just ignore them and hope the rest of the world sees them for the idiots they are. On the other, I was tempted to lose my cool and fire back at them...

But what would that get me? Nowhere. It would drag me down to their level. 

I'm better than that. 

It's still #autism awareness month. And, sadly, I'm aware that there are people who just don't care. 

Monday, April 14, 2014

Militant autism bloggers and Tumblr

Just recently I started a page on Tumblr. www.nsvar.tumblr.com Between using Buffer and Friends+Me all of my posts reach all of my social networks. Sometimes I find interesting web articles, though I may not agree with the content, and I post them to encourage discussion. I try to stay away from overtly political or religious posts.

Sometimes I post motivational pictures. Granted, I didn't personally make them, but they are motivational and worthwhile just the same. 

It turns out that Tumblr is full of people who look to have a problem with everything you post. Not sure if you people are autistic themselves or if they are just Ornery people who think that their worldview is the only valid worldview. 

One motivational picture was called "ableist / ableism" by one Blogger. Another was just out right called "shit". Some responses are multi-paragraph tirades while others are just grumblings. 

Very sorry these people are so angry at the world. I happen to have a son with autism so I am not ignorant to the situation. I could choose to be angry at the world, what would that solve? 

Nothing. 

Negativity breeds negativity. 

I know many parents with low functioning children who have every right to be angry with the world. But they aren't... They work hard to do the absolute best for their child, they keep a smile on their face because their productivity and positivity is contagious. They are active in the special needs community and they are wonderful all around parents.

So here's my message to all the complainers on Tumblr:

Put a sock in it. If you don't have anything nice to say, just don't say anything at all.

And have a great day!

Thursday, March 20, 2014

We're Back!!!

Yeah... I know. I kinda dropped off the face of the earth for a bit. Alot has happened in the past few months.

But you dont need to be burdened with all that nonsense! Just know that www.nsvar.org has to be built again from scratch. I will be placing all future announcements, flyers and graphics here on the blog and they will be automatically shunted to the website and all the social media.

Please, please let me know if theres anything you'd like to see added to the new website!